Path: typhoon.sonic.net!not-for-mail Message-ID: <39ED7215.4DE0@luckymojo.com> From: catherine yronwode Organization: Lucky Mojo Curio Company X-Mailer: Mozilla 3.01-C-MACOS8 (Macintosh; I; 68K) MIME-Version: 1.0 Newsgroups: alt.magick.tantra Subject: Re: help with tantric sex - is this the right news group? References: Content-Type: text/plain; charset=us-ascii Content-Transfer-Encoding: 7bit Lines: 29 Date: Wed, 18 Oct 2000 09:41:51 GMT NNTP-Posting-Host: 209.204.136.251 X-Complaints-To: abuse@sonic.net X-Trace: typhoon.sonic.net 971862111 209.204.136.251 (Wed, 18 Oct 2000 02:41:51 PDT) NNTP-Posting-Date: Wed, 18 Oct 2000 02:41:51 PDT Xref: typhoon.sonic.net alt.magick.tantra:16749 Cougerlon wrote: > > Hi I'm a 35-year-old male with a (post 15 years) spinal cord injury at > the C4 vertebrae of my spinal cord. ,snip details> The subject of care-givers and spinal chord patients having sexual relations is a problematic one, as you already know, because it is somewhat frowed upon by the care-giving "establishment." However, there is a wonderful description of such a relationship in a book by the neo=tantric author Kenneth Stubbs. I no longer have the book, so i am guessing at the title: i THINK it is "Sacred Prostitutes." It is not about prostitutes per se, but rather about women who have given their neo-tantric sexuality to men for varuious unconventional reasons and considerations. Ken Stubbs is online -- try locating him and ordering the book from him. Or it might be available at amazon.com I really think it will contain some inspiration in regard to your situation. If you feel that this woman may be interested but inexperienced at neo-tantric lovemaking, why not ask her to read some material -- in a book or online -- about the subject? It may open her mind and heart to the idea. I know others who have had success with this tactic. Good luck, cat yronwode Karezza and Sacred Sex ------ http://www.luckymojo.com/sacredsex.html No personal e-mail, please; just catch me in usenet; i read it daily.