Path: typhoon.sonic.net!feed.news.sonic.net!newsfeed.media.kyoto-u.ac.jp!newsfeed.direct.ca!look.ca!pln-w!extra.newsguy.com!lotsanews.com!cyclone-sf.pbi.net!206.13.28.144!news.pacbell.net.POSTED!ssg.uncanny.net!robomod!not-for-mail From: elf@drizzle.com (Elf Sternberg) Newsgroups: soc.sexuality.general Subject: Re: 'Fisting', The Art Of. Organization: Pendor, UnLtd. Lines: 52 Sender: ssg@atlantic.devin.com Approved: SSG Approval Key Message-ID: <997075836.27704@yabetcha.sttl.drizzle.com> References: <9kk0km$ebc$1@uranium.btinternet.com> X-SSG-Policy: http://www.uncanny.net/~ssg X-SSG-Info-1: Send submissions to ssg@uncanny.net X-SSG-Info-2: Send technical complaints to ssg-admin@uncanny.net X-SSG-Info-3: Send complaints about policy to ssg-board@uncanny.net X-Comment: moderators do not necessarily agree or disagree with this article. X-Robomod: STUMP, ichudov@algebra.com (Igor Chudov), C++/Perl/Unix Consulting X-Apparently-To: Pdeery@btinternet.com Cache-Post-Path: yabetcha.sttl.drizzle.com!elf@mud03.drizzle.com X-Cache: nntpcache 2.4.0b2 (see http://www.nntpcache.org/) X-Auth: PGPMoose V1.1 PGP soc.sexuality.general iQBVAwUBO24qWBjLI1hTTLWlAQEa2QH7B3ju40bsN4L9ImkbqxRUpfKtAzvsdOX7 5fx6roD+/hDv49ghneQ5rDpMzIozRyGsXZhSwWHCjMR2sDkrjVVD1g== =Ilkc Date: 5 Aug 2001 22:31:00 -0700 NNTP-Posting-Host: 63.197.80.100 X-Complaints-To: abuse@pacbell.net X-Trace: news.pacbell.net 997075861 63.197.80.100 (Sun, 05 Aug 2001 22:31:01 PDT) NNTP-Posting-Date: Sun, 05 Aug 2001 22:31:01 PDT Xref: typhoon.sonic.net soc.sexuality.general:31235 In article <9kk0km$ebc$1@uranium.btinternet.com> "Paul Deery" writes: > So, my question goes out to all, and basically I was wondering if >anybody out there can provide any sort of overview on the pursuit of >'fisting'? I would like to know a bit more about it, on all sorts of >levels. Technical and otherwise. That depends. What kind of fisting are you talking about? Vaginal or anal? The basics of fisting are like that of any sex-- take it slow, stop if it's starting to hurt, and listen to your partner tell you what you want. The real secrett is simple; you're not shoving an authoritarian fist into an unreceptive hole; you have to seduce the vagina or anus, let it let you in, and let your partner have the pleasure. > Apart from the basics (which I would like to know), I was also >wondering what kind of pleasure the person being 'fisted' receives? As someone who likes fisting from both ends, there's certainly a psychological attractiveness to it, something that encourages me to want it, but the physical pleasure is... well, let's just say that it's something quite amazing. Every last braincell is telling you that what you're doing is both terrible and wonderful. At one party I attended several years ago I had an opportunity to fist a young lady who had never done fisting with a man before, only other women. It took us about half an hour to get to the point where my hand was finally entering her vagina fully, and just as goosenecked my hand, my thumb pressed to the palm, I and her girlfriend were coaching her softly. She was completely spaced out on the sensations what I was doing were sending into her brain, and I felt I needed to get in touch with her before I went further. So I started to talk to her softly, trying to get her to talk to me. I said her name several times, and then said, "Red, yellow, or green?" She was gasping and moaning and I couldn't make out anything coherent. The colors are a common tool among sadomasochists for communicating what they want: "stop", "go slow", or "more!" I asked it again. "Red, yellow, green? Red, yellow..." "Green! Green! Kelly fucking green!" About thirty seconds later, well... let's just say it's rare I get to see a woman orgasm that amazingly hard. Damn near cut off the circulation in my wrist. Elf -- Elf M. Sternberg, rational romantic mystical cynical idealist http://www.halcyon.com/elf/ Dvorak Keyboards: Frgp ucpoy ncb. ru e.u.bo.v