CUNNILINGUS: ORAL SEX FOR WOMEN
Cunnilingus is the fine art of making love to a vulva and vagina with your mouth
and tongue. It is a delicate skill, requiring patience, practice, and dedication
to get it right, but any woman you learn to do it right for will appreciate
you all the more for it.
This isn't an attack. Don't go after the clitoris like a fireman attacking
a fire. Quite often at first, the clitoral glans is far too sensitive for direct
stimulation. Lick around it, stimulating the hood and the crura, teasing her inner labia,
tasting her. Take your time and listen to her. Some women make noise,
and some do not. It will be a while before you learn exactly what your
lover prefers as far as oral sex is concerned.
If the taste or smell bothers you or is a concern, ask her to wash first. Most people who enjoy cunnilingus agree that a clean vagina is a good, if acquired, taste.
Some people are particularly turned off at the suggestion of cunnilingus during menstruation. If it is a concern to you, then wait. A tampon may well hold the blood back, as will a diaphragm, but some men can't stand the taste anyway. If your partner is healthy, however, there is no particular danger in menstrual blood, and some women find that orgasms during their periods allievate cramps or are more intensely satisfying than at other times during their cycle.
Elf Sternberg <firstname.lastname@example.org>
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